{"id":97183146,"date":"2016-11-08T21:23:03","date_gmt":"2016-11-08T21:23:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/?p=97183146"},"modified":"2016-11-08T21:23:30","modified_gmt":"2016-11-08T21:23:30","slug":"how-to-ask-your-boss-for-a-vacation-and-get-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/how-to-ask-your-boss-for-a-vacation-and-get-it\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Ask Your Boss for a Vacation&#8230; And Get It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hey, we get it: asking to take a vacation can be kind of intimidating. Even if you\u2019ve proven yourself to be a valuable asset to the company (the Anderson deal probably would have closed anyway, but that sweet Powerpoint presentation you put together definitely helped seal it) and you get along great with your boss (they\u2019re the one who dubbed your Powerpoint skills \u201csweet\u201d), you might be worried that any serious time away might hurt your standing in the cubicle power struggle or that requesting some vacay might make it look you\u2019re not a team player. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So you don\u2019t bring up the whole time off thing (you\u2019re fine just taking off the days the office is closed on federal holidays) or even bother to use all your vacation days. You\u2019re not alone. An astonishing <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/skift.com\/2016\/01\/18\/no-vacation-nation-41-of-americans-didnt-take-a-day-off-in-2015\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">41% of Americans<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> didn&#8217;t take a single vacation day in 2015! And <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.projecttimeoff.com\/research\/state-american-vacation-2016\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">more than half of all Americans (55%)<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> didn\u2019t use all their allotted vacation days. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-97183149\" src=\"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_358435634.jpg\" alt=\"shutterstock_358435634\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_358435634.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_358435634-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_358435634-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_358435634-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_358435634-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_358435634-272x182.jpg 272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lots of people fear that taking time off will hurt their relationship with their employer, but according to career expert <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ellenreeves.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ellen Reeves<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, author of <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Can I Wear My Nose Ring to the Interview?<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it\u2019s not so much the time off but the request that matters. \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhen and how you ask makes all the difference in maintaining a positive relationship with your employer,\u201d Reeves explains, adding: \u201cIf you\u2019re afraid to ask, ask yourself why you\u2019re afraid. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you asking at the last minute? Have you let work slip lately or missed a deadline?<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reeves also points out that taking vacation time is essential not only for your health, but also the the health of the company you work for. So taking the time off that you deserve is a win-win situation that should be at the top of your to-do list! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some rules to play by that should make it easier for your boss to say yes to that vacation, according to Reeves.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Know Your Company\u2019s Policies<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-97183150\" src=\"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_182480630.jpg\" alt=\"shutterstock_182480630\" width=\"1000\" height=\"672\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_182480630.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_182480630-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_182480630-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_182480630-272x182.jpg 272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When asking your boss for time off, you need to properly understand your company\u2019s rules regarding vacations and time off.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Schedule a meeting as much in advance as possible to talk about time off with your employer; make sure both of you are up-to-speed about how many vacation days you are allotted and how many you have left to use.\u201d<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Reeves says.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether it\u2019s formal or informal, knowing the rules sets the stage for a positive conversation. Reeves also says that it \u201chelps to know what the unwritten office rules are <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">about taking time off are as well as official office policy<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u201d Get a feel of the office culture to determine what\u2019s appropriate when it comes to taking time off. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Give a Heads up as Far in Advance as You Can<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-97183151\" src=\"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_279759455.jpg\" alt=\"shutterstock_279759455\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_279759455.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_279759455-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_279759455-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_279759455-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_279759455-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_279759455-272x182.jpg 272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Giving as much notice as possible is not only thoughtful, but it will help you ensure a nice long break that is stress (and email) free. Providing plenty of time for your boss and coworkers to prepare for your absence is all that matters. Even if you forgot about your cousin&#8217;s wedding and had to book a last-minute flight, your employer does not want to hear details. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIf you went ahead without asking and bought a last minute, non-refundable ticket, that\u2019s not the employer\u2019s problem,\u201d Reeves explains. \u201cPeople are juggling schedules and dropping a last minute getaway on your boss isn\u2019t exactly ideal.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Make Your Absence as Painless as Possible<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-97183152\" src=\"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_381098788.jpg\" alt=\"shutterstock_381098788\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_381098788.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_381098788-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_381098788-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_381098788-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_381098788-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_381098788-272x182.jpg 272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vacations are not something to fear, they exist for a reason. Your boss doesn\u2019t want you having any workplace groans and grumbles or seeing you completely stressed out. The truth of the matter is: your boss actually wants you to take time off! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAll your boss cares about is that your work is going to be done <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in your absence and that you\u2019ve laid out a plan with his\/her approval<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,\u201d Reeves says.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Assure your employer that there will be as little disruption as possible. Who can you delegate your work tasks to? Are you willing to be contacted in a crisis situation? Understand who bears the burden when you\u2019re gone and craft a vacation proposal that your boss can\u2019t refuse. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Ask, Don&#8217;t Tell<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-97183153\" src=\"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_173451893.jpg\" alt=\"shutterstock_173451893\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_173451893.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_173451893-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_173451893-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_173451893-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_173451893-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_173451893-272x182.jpg 272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is a very important distinction between a demand and a request, and when asking for approval, one is much more effective than the other. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Casually telling your boss that you\u2019re going to be out of the office for the week is not the way to go. Asking for vacation time takes advance preparation. According to Reeves, you should approach the situation respectfully and \u201cdon\u2019t just mention it as you bump into each other in the hallway.\u201d She also suggests putting the agreed upon request down on paper (or probably, in an email).<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Even if you happen to be best buds with your boss, always be diligent and schedule an appropriate time to request and discuss time off, then follow it up with an email. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><em>And One Final Point to Remember . . .<\/em><\/b><\/p>\n<h2>Enjoy Your Vacation!<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having time off from work is a great way to recharge your batteries and can actually <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/articles\/work\/8-reasons-why-taking-vacation-makes-you-better-work.html\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">make you better at your job<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">! But remember, as Reeves puts it, \u201cWhen you\u2019re on vacation, you\u2019re on vacation. When you\u2019re back at work, be back at work.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-97183154\" src=\"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_407797777.jpg\" alt=\"shutterstock_407797777\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_407797777.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_407797777-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_407797777-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_407797777-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_407797777-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/shutterstock_407797777-272x182.jpg 272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>[perfectpullquote align=&#8221;full&#8221; cite=&#8221;&#8221; link=&#8221;&#8221; color=&#8221;&#8221; class=&#8221;&#8221; size=&#8221;&#8221;]Do you have any tips for asking your boss for time off that we missed? 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Even if you\u2019ve proven yourself to be a valuable asset to the company (the Anderson deal probably would have closed anyway, but that sweet Powerpoint presentation you put together definitely helped seal it) and you get along great with your boss [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":60,"featured_media":97183148,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[56],"tags":[2540,1851,2538],"class_list":["post-97183146","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-travel-tips","tag-time-off","tag-vacation","tag-work"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97183146","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/60"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=97183146"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97183146\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":97183156,"href":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97183146\/revisions\/97183156"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97183148"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=97183146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=97183146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cheapoair.com\/miles-away\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=97183146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}